tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1379278689668630184.post1076645926364651933..comments2018-10-25T12:38:26.110+01:00Comments on There's Always Rheum for Improvement: Home Sweet HomeRheuma Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11028101927253464226noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1379278689668630184.post-86901960673623561222011-06-22T18:08:55.576+01:002011-06-22T18:08:55.576+01:00Hi Kerrie,
I want to wish you all the luck in the ...Hi Kerrie,<br />I want to wish you all the luck in the world with the next stage in your life. I empathise fully with what you are describing, although my circumstances were slightly different. I was not able to accept myself with my condition (Psoriatic Arthritis) and I think I inadvertently pushed my ex away. After I was newly single I had to fight the demons within, to learn to love myself first,(in whatever guise)before I could have another relationship. I also have an amazing family! You are not alone :) I was diagnosed 15 years ago and still have a very good quality of life. Best wishes! ZeenatZeenat Ahmed-Petohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06605738249192625408noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1379278689668630184.post-63895240118793867882011-06-16T09:59:59.939+01:002011-06-16T09:59:59.939+01:00Good luck on your voyage back into the "adult...Good luck on your voyage back into the "adult" world. You can make it and you will! Have faith in yourself first, the rest will follow.Deb aka AbcsOfrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12619087592028571941noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1379278689668630184.post-47031745927502301852011-06-15T15:20:45.937+01:002011-06-15T15:20:45.937+01:00I moved out about a year and a half ago, and I mov...I moved out about a year and a half ago, and I moved two hours away from my mum and dad. I think my mum was more worried than me (she also has RA) I'd gone through a few treatments and none were working, I was feeling crappy but being told my bloods were fine. Since moving down here I've had to learn to be my own voice, and to learn my own limits. I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia too (hence my bloods being fine!) and my partner and I have had to learn together what works and what doesn't. I know I'm an evil cow when I'm fatigued, but he's learned to leave me alone when I'm tired and let me have space (bless him) and I don't nag him about housework...I leanred quickly that I'm never going to be a domestic godess, I don't have the energy for it, so my partner and I have had to adapt to what I can do; if I'm feeling crappy we have a DVD day, if I'm not so bad we go out for food, if I'm having a good day we go for a walk. It took time, but we're reaching a good understanding of this stupid illness now, and there definately is something REALLY nice about coming home to someone who knows that you need a hug just by looking at you :) good luck!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1379278689668630184.post-88306148801083984552011-06-14T05:33:21.662+01:002011-06-14T05:33:21.662+01:00You go girl! Good luck with your new adventure!You go girl! Good luck with your new adventure!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1379278689668630184.post-81328537138855672362011-06-14T00:46:44.762+01:002011-06-14T00:46:44.762+01:00Best of luck! I moved in wit my bf after moving ba...Best of luck! I moved in wit my bf after moving back in wit parents to be minded when Ra got bad. Its strange but great to have bf as the first person i now turn to when i have to ask 4 help and not my mom! I am just recovered after having hip replacement surgery and he has now looked after me and he has seen me at0my worst and taken over all the household chores and still is not put off!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com